Nafsul Mutmainnah

"(It will be said to the pious): "O (you) the one in (complete) rest and satisfaction (Nafsul Mutmainnah) ! Come back to your Lord, Well-pleased (yourself) and well-pleasing unto Him! Enter you, then, among My honoured slaves, and enter you My Paradise!" - Surah Al Fajr [89:27-30]

Monday, February 27, 2012

Chapter: The Ruling on The Speech of The Scholars against Each Other


Al-Imaam Abu U’mr Yusuf bin Abdil Barr, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:
“Indeed many of the people are mistaken in relation to it and a people who are ignorant regarding it have emerged; whereas they know not what they are upon concerning to it. The correct opinion in regards to this chapter is that whosoever’s A’daalah, loyalty has become confirmed and his leadership upon knowledge has become recognized and his trustworthiness and his care for knowledge has become apparent then it should not be given any attention to the statement (the criticism) of anyone in regards to him except if one were to bring for his disparagement a clear and fair evidence which validates his disparagement in a manner of testaments while applying it from the angle of observation and scrutiny. It being that of which necessitates believing him in what he has stated due to him being free from animosity and envy and enmity and competition ;being free from all of that. So therefore all of that necessitates to accept his statement from the angle of jurisprudence and scrutiny…”
Reference:
Jaam’i bayyaan al-I’lm wa Fadlihi, (2/251), print: al-Ibnul Jawzee.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Encouragement to have Affection & Friendliness

Women attending circles of knowledge in the Masjid

Question: Is it permissible for a muslim woman to attend gatherings of knowledge (study circles) and fiqh lessons in the masaajid?
 
Response: Yes, it is permissible for a woman to attend gatherings of knowledge whether it be fiqh (lessons) or fiqh with 'aqeedah and tawheed with the condition that she is not perfumed and nor all dressed up, and that she is (sitting) far away from the men and not free-mixing with them, because the Messenger of Allaah (sal-Allaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said:
 
«The best of the rows for the women are the last ones, and the worst of them are the first ones»
 
...and this is because the first rows are closest to the men than the last rows, so therefore the last rows become better than the first ones (since they are furthest away from the men).
 
Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen
Fataawa ash-Shaykh Muhammad as-Saalih al-'Uthaymeen - Volume 2, Page 842
 
...
Published: 4 March 2006

Friday, February 24, 2012

How to deal with calamities.

Ibn al-Qayyim in his book Zaad al-Ma'aad (4/189-195), has mentioned several things in how to deal with calamities, including the following: 

 1 - If he looks at what has befallen him, he will find that what his Lord has left for him is similar to it or better than it, and if he is patient and accepts it, He has stored up for him something that is many times greater than what he has lost through this calamity, and if He willed He could have made the calamity even greater. 

 2 - The fire of calamity can be extinguished by thinking of those who have been hit even harder. Let him look to his right, does he see anything but calamity? Then let him look to his left, does he see anything but loss? If he were to look at the people around him, he would not see anything but people who are tested, either by missing out on something that they like, or by having happen to them that which they dislike. The pains of this world are like dreams or like a passing shadow. If you laugh a little you will weep a lot, and if you are happy for a day you will be miserable for a lifetime, and if you have what you want for a little while, you will be deprived for a long time. There is no day of happiness but it is followed by a day of pain.

Ibn Mas'ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: For every moment of joy there is a moment of sorrow, and no house is filled with joy but it will be filled with sorrow.

And Ibn Sireen said: "There is never any laughter but there comes weeping after it".

 3- It should be noted that panic will not make the calamity go away, and in fact it makes it worse. 

 4 - It should be noted that missing out on the reward for patience and surrender, which is mercy and guidance that Allaah has granted as the reward for patience and turning to Him (by saying Inna Lillaahi wa inna ilayhi raaji'oon (Verily to Allah we belong and unto Him is our return)), is worse than the calamity itself. 

 5 - It should be noted that panic makes one's enemy rejoice and makes one's friend feel sad; it makes Allaah angry and makes the shaytaan happy; it destroys reward and weakens resolve. If he is patient, seeks reward, strives to please Allaah, to make his friend happy and to make his enemy sad, and seeks to relieve his brothers of their burdens and to console them before they console him, this is steadfastness and a sign of perfection - not slapping one's cheeks, rending one's garment, wishing for death and being discontent with the divine decree. 

 6 - It should be noted that what comes after being patient and seeking reward is pleasure and joy that is many times greater than what he could have got from keeping what he lost. Sufficient for him is the "house of praise" that will be built for him in Paradise as a reward for his praising his Lord and turning to Him (by saying Inna Lillaahi wa inna ilayhi raaji'oon (Verily to Allah we belong and unto Him is our return)). So let him decide which of the two calamities is greater: a calamity in this world, or the calamity of missing out on the house of praise in eternal Paradise.

In al-Tirmidhiit is narrated in a marfoo' report:

"On the Day of Resurrection people will wish that their skins had been cut with scissors in this world, when they see the reward of those who were struck with calamity".
One of the salaf said: Were it not for the calamities of this world, we would come empty-handed on the Day of Resurrection. 

7 - It should be noted that the One Who is testing him is the Most Wise and the Most Merciful, and that He - may He be glorified - did not send this calamity in order to destroy him or cause him pain or finish him off, rather He is checking on him, testing his patience, acceptance and faith; it is so that He may hear his du'aa' and supplication, so that He may see him standing before Him, seeking protection, filled with humility and complaining to Him 

 8 - It should be noted that were it not for the trials and tribulations of this world, a person could develop arrogance, self-admiration, a pharaonic attitude and hardheartedness which would lead to his doom in this world and in the Hereafter. It is a sign of the mercy of the Most Merciful that He checks on him from time to time with the remedy of calamity so as to protect him from these diseases, to keep his submission and servitude sound, and to eliminate all bad elements that may lead to his doom.

Glory be to the One Who shows mercy by means of testing, and tests by means of blessing, as it is said:

Allaah may bless us with calamities even if that is hard, and Allaah may test some people with blessings.

 9 - It should be noted that the bitterness of this world is the essence of sweetness in the Hereafter, as Allaah will turn the former into the latter. Similarly the sweetness of this world is the essence of bitterness in the Hereafter. It is better to move from temporary bitterness to eternal sweetness than the other way round. If this is still not clear to you, then think of what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

"Paradise is surrounded with difficulties, and Hell is surrounded with 

Friday, February 17, 2012

Why We Should Call Ourselves Salafee (looo, may Allaah preserve the Shaykh, Aameen)


Some Golden Advice of Imaam Muqbil (rahimahullaah)

[Part 1:] Some Golden Advise of Imaam Muqbil (Rahimahullaah)


In The Name of Allaah, The Most Meerciful The Bestower of Mercy

(1) The study of Tawheed is from the most virtuous affairs of drawing close to Allaah.

(2) Our call with us is more precious than gold and (more precious than) our souls, and (our souls) are more precious than gold.

(3) Argumentation is from the greatest reasons of splitting.

(4) The watered down calls (to Islaam) will not be successful.

(5) It is not permissible for anyone to hurt his brother’s heart.

(6) All the Muslims–arabs, non-arabs, white and black; it is incumbent upon them to be one united party.

(7) I advise you to out- do the secularists and the socialists.

(8) I advice you to have eagerness in keeping the company of the righteous people.

(9) If you desire well-being, and (if you desire) safety from bewilderment, then I advice you with following the predecessors of ahlus Sunnah wal 
jamaa-ah.

(10) O people of Dammaaj! Acquire knowledge with strength.

(11) I advice the student of knowledge to marry a sunniyyah (i.e. a woman upon the sunnah), so that he can establish a sunni household.

[Source: 'Al-Bashaa-ir Fis-Samaa-i Al-Mubaashir': Compiler: Abdullah Ibn Ayyaash with the introduction of Shaikh Muhammad Bin Abdul-Wahhaab 
Al-Wassaabee]

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[Part 2]: Some Golden Advise of Imaam Muqbil (Rahimahullaah)


In The Name of Allaah, The Most Merciful The Bestower of Mercy

(1) It is not enough to shape the Imaamah (round the head) O brothers, but there has to be (seeking) knowledge alongside shaping the Imaamah 
(round the head).

(2) Co-operate all of you in acquiring beneficial knowledge and acting upon it.

(3) Indeed, whoever sticks to the religion and knowledge, Allaah will raise him; also whoever acts upon knowledge, Allaah will raise him.

(4)  The hindrances are many, so it may be that Allaah puts you to the test with an illness and you will not be able to reach knowledge.

(5)  What I advise myself and everyone is pre-occupation with knowledge.  The worries of the worldly life do not have an end; so beware of pre-occupying 
yourselves with the difficulties of life, for had we pre-occupied ourselves with them, we would not have been able to seek knowledge.

(6)  The youth must fear Allaah in their occupations, and they should divert them towards that which is of benefit to Islaam and the Muslims.

(7)  Fear Allaah with regards to your time. Fear Allaah with regards to your time. Fear Allaah with regards to your time.

(8)  The greatest affair that has afflicted the Muslims is ignorance.

(9)  Had you known how much the people are in need of knowledge, you would have strove day and night.

(10)  The person’s concern should not be limited to the people of his land; rather it is incumbent upon a person to know that he is responsible for the world. 
(He is even responsible) regarding a Christian, whilst he remains upon disbelief.

(11)  The caller to (Allaah) is in need of patience, abstinence from the worldly life and endurance.

[Source: 'Al-Bashaa-ir Fis-Samaa-i Al-Mubaashir': Compiler: Abdullah Ibn Ayyaash with the introduction of Shaikh Muhammad Bin Abdul-Wahhaab 
Al-Wassaabee]

The More One Obeys the More He is Guided

Shaykh ibn 'Uthaymeen Rahimahullah said: 

"The more a person sticks to Allaah's Legislation the more He, the Most High, will guide him, due to His Saying, ' And He guides them to a Straight Path.' [5:16] So sins are a cause for deviation and obedience and submission are a cause for guidance."

[Tafseer Soorahtul- Maa'idah, v. 1, p.221.]

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Imam Faisal Nice Quran Recitation

The Prayer of A Traveller

Taken from "A Summary of Islamic Jurisprudence" by Sheikh Salih Al-Fawzan , Vol 1 , pg 238 - 241

A traveler is one of the excused persons for it is permissible for him to shorten the prayer consisting of four rak'ahs ( units of prayer ) to only two rak'ahs as stated in the Noble Qur'an, the Sunnah (Prophetic Tradition ) , and the consensus of Muslim scholars. Allah , Exalted be He , says:
"And when you travel throughout the land , there is no blame upon you for the shortening prayer .." (Qur'an : An-Nisa:101 )
Moreover , the Prophet (Peace be upon him) performed only shortened prayers on his journeys [7]. Furthermore , on journeys , shortening the prayer is better than completing it according to the majority of scholars . It is narrated in the Two Sahihs that Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her ) said :
"When the prayer was enjoined ( by Allah ) , it was two rak'ahs (units of prayer ) only ( in every prayer ) both when in residence or on a journey . Then the prayers performed on journey remained the same , but ( the rak'ahs of ) the prayer for non-travelers were increased." [8]
Umar (may Allah be pleased with him ) said:
"The prayer performed on journeys is of two rak'ahs . This is the complete prayer without shortening." [9]
A Muslim on a journey is to start shortening the prayer as soon as he leaves his town or city as Allah permits the shortening of prayer for those who travel through the land . Before leaving his town, a Muslim is not legally considered a traveler through the land (and hence he is not permitted to shorten the prayer ) . The Prophet ( Peace be upon him ) used to shorten the prayer as soon as he left his hometown . So, if a person does not travel from the residential land , he is not considered a traveler.
A traveler is permitted to shorten the prayer even if he frequently travels , as in the case of a mail carrier or a taxi driver who spends most of his time on the way between towns.
It is permissible for a traveler to combine the Zuhr prayer and the Asr ( Afternoon ) prayer at the due time of either of them , and, likewise , to combine the Maghrib ( sunset ) prayer and the Isha ( night ) prayer at the due time of either of them . That is because what makes it permissible for the traveler to shorten prayer makes it permissible for him to combine prayers as well .
However , shortening prayer is a temporary permission valid when there is a necessity , as in the case when traveler is in haste on his journey. Mu'adh ( may Allah be pleased with him ) narrated :
" on the Battle of Tabuk , when the Prophet (Peace be upon him) had gone forth before the Sun passed the meridian , he would delay the Zuhar prayer and combine it with the Asr prayer , performing them together . But when he proceeded after the sun had passed the meridian , he would perform the Zuhr and the Asr prayers ( at the time of the Zuhr ) and then he would proceed. ( He acted similarly for the Maghrib prayer. ) When the sun had set before he proceeded , he would delay the Maghrib prayer and combine it with the Isha prayer , performing them together . But when he proceeded after sunset , he would perform the Isha prayer and the Maghrib prayer at the time of the Maghrib prayer ".
( Related by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi ) [10]
When a traveler stops on his journey , to take a rest , it is better for him to perform each prayer shortened at its due time , not to combine prayers . If it is difficult for a Muslim patient to perform each prayer at its due time , then he is permitted to combine the Zuhr prayer and the Asr prayer ( at the duetime of either of them ), and to combine the Maghrib prayer and the Isha prayer ( at the due time of either of them ).
Shaykhul - Islam Ibn Taymiyah said :
"Allah has ordained shortening of prayer to remove difficulties and make things easy for the Muslim nation . So , a Muslim is permitted to combine prayers when necessary . All hadiths (related to this matter ) imply that it is permissible to combine two prayers at the due time of either of them in order to remove any possible hardship caused to the Prophet's nation. Thus , it is permissible to combine prayers if it is to cause hardship if not done. This proves that it is permossible with greater reason for a Muslim patient to comine ( two ) prayers at the due time of either of them as long as it is difficult for him to perform each prayer at its due time . " [11]
Ibn Taymiyah also said :
" Patients can combine the prayer according to the Sunnah for it is narrated in two hadiths that the Prophet ( Peace be upon him ) ordered a mustahadah [12] to combine the prayer . "[13]
By means of analogical deduction with the case a mustahadah , the combining of prayer is permitted for every Muslim who cannot purity for every prayer, such as those inflicted with enuresis , a continuously bleeding wound , or a permanent nosebleed .The Prophet ( Peace be upon him ) said to Hamnah Bint Jahsh when she asked him about istihadah [14] ( vaginal bleeding other than menstruation ) :
"...But if you are strong enough to delay the Zuhr prayer and advance the Asr prayer ,to wash , and then combine the Zuhr and the Asr prayers; (and ) to delay the Maghrib prayer and advance the Isha prayer , to wash , and then combine the two prayers, do so ."
( Related by Ahmad , Abu Dawud , and At-Tirmidhi and deemed sahih ( authentic) by the latter ) [15]
It is permissible to combine the Maghrib prayer and the Isha prayer , in particular , if there is rain that wets clothes and causes difficulty ( for those who go to the mosque ). The Prophet ( Peace be upon him ) combined the Maghrib prayer and the Isha prayer in a rainy night [16] , and so did Abu Bakr and Umar afterwards [17].
Shaykul - Islam Ibn Taymiyah ( may Allah have mercy on him ) said :
" According to the soundest view of scholars , it is permissible for a Muslim to combine prayers because of mud or strong cold wind in a dark night , even if it has stopped raining . This is more incumbent than performing each prayer at its due time at home . Moreover, to abandon combining congregational prayers in mosque to perform prayer at home is a bid'ah ( a matter innovated in religion ) that contradicts the Sunnah ( Prophetic tradition ) . It is an act of the Sunnah to perform the Five ( obligatory ) prayers in congregation in the mosque , and this is more due , according to the unanimous agreement of Muslims , than performing prayers at home. In addition, congregational prayer combined in the mosque is more due than performing prayers at home individually, according to the unanimous agreement of the scholars who maintain the aforementioned permissibility to combine prayers ( due to bad weather ) , such as Malik , Ash-Shafi'i and Ahmad . [18]

It is better for one permitted to combine prayers to combine them according to what suits his / her situation most. On the day of ' Arafah , it is better ( for the pilgrims ) to combine the Zuhr prayer and the Asr prayer at the time of the former [19], but in Muzdalifah , it is better ( for the pilgrims ) to combine the Maghrib prayer and the Isha prayer at the time of the latter , according to what the Prophet (Peace be upon him) did ( in his Hajj )[20] . On the day of Arafah , pilgrims combine the Zuhr and the Asr prayers at the time of the former in order to continue staying at ' Arafah mount (without interruption), but in Muzdalifah, they combine the Maghrib and the Isha prayers at the time of the latter to continue moving toward Muzdalifah.
In general , it is an act of the Sunnah for pilgrims to combine prayers on the Day of Arafah and in Muzdalifah but in circumstances other than that , it is permissible when necessary . However , when there is no necessity , it is better for a traveller to perform each prayer at its due time . During the days of his Hajj , the Prophet (Peace be upon him) combined prayers only on the Day of ' Arafah and in Muzdalifah , but he (Peace be upon him) did not combine prayers in Mina because he was to stay there . So the Prophet (Peace be upon him) used to combine prayers only when he was in a hurry on a journey . We invoke Allah to guide us to useful knowledge and good deeds .
End Notes:
[7] Ad-Dara qutni ( 2275 , 2276) [2/168] and Al-Bayhaqi [3/141]
[8] Al-Bukhari (350) [1/601] and Muslim (1568) [3/199]
[9] An-Nasai (1419) [2/123] and Ibn Majah (1036) [1/556]
[10] Abu Dawud (1208) [2/10] and At-Tirmidhi (552) [2/438]
[11] See: Majmu 'ul Fatawa (26/64)
[12] Mustahadah: A woman in a state of istihadah (i.e a woman having vaginal bleeding other than menstruation)
[13] See : Majmu 'ul Fatawa (24/72,74)
[14] Istihadah: Vaginal bleeding other than menstruation
[15] Ahmad [6/381,382,439-440] and At-Tirmidhi (128) [1/221]
[16] Al-Bukhari (543) and Muslim (705)
[17] 'Abdur-Razzaq in his Musannaf (4440) [2/556]
[18] See: Majmu 'ul Fatawa (24/38,29)
[19] Muslim (2941) [4/402]
[20] Al-Bukhari (1674) [3/660] and Muslim (309) [5/38]

Friday, February 10, 2012

"...be just even if someone treats him unjustly..."

as-Sa'di:

"A servant should obey Allaah and be just even if someone treats him unjustly. It is not allowed to lie about the one who lies about you, or to deceive the one who deceives you."

(Taysir ul Kareem p. 219)

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

The Qur’an Comes First

Author: The Grant Mufti Shaikh ‘Abdul ‘Azeez Aalish Shaikh (HafithahuAllah)

Source: www.Sahab.net 

Translator: Abu ‘Abdis Salaam Siddiq Al Juyaanee

Q: How can we combine between memorizing the Noble Qur’an and seeking
knowledge?

A: Start with the Qur’an, reading it and perfecting its recitation. If you accomplish
this –may Allah aid you in seeking knowledge- this is a great bounty from Allah upon
you. The Qur’an will be ease for the one who (sincerely) wants it, for verily, Allah
The Most High says,

“And We have indeed made the Qur'an easy to understand and remember,
then is there any that will remember (or receive admonition)?” [Al-Qamar: 17]

The Qur’an is the key to every (Islaamic) science. Your perfection of its recitation
and memorizing it will open up for you areas of knowledge that only Allah knows
(best to what extent will benefit you).

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Treatment between husband and wife‏

There is no doubt that it is obligatory for the husband and wife to live together in a kind and sociable manner. There should be good manners and treatment between them, along with affection and pleasant behaviour - as Allaah the Mighty and Majestic - says,
 
"And live with them in honour and in kindness."(Sooratun-Nisaa' 4:19)
 
And His - the Most Perfect - saying,
 
"And the wives have rights over the husbands - similar to those of the husbands over them - in that which is reasonable. But men have a degree over them." (Sooratul-Baqarah 2:228)
 
The Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said, "Righteousness is good character." [1] And he ('alayhis-salaatu was-salaam) then said, "Do not consider any good action as insignificant- even if it is meeting your brother with a cheerful face." [2] And he (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) also said, "The most perfect of Believers in eemaan (faith) is the one with the best character. And the best of you are those that are best to their women-folk, and I am the best amongst you to my family." [3] 
 
There are besides these many other ahaadeeth which are a general proof for the encouragement of good character, cheerful meeting and good companionship between Muslims. If this is the general case between Muslims, then good treatment between husband and wife and relatives is even more important. 
 
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[1] Related by Muslim (4/1980) from an-Nawwaas Ibn Samýaan (radiyallaahu 'anhu).
 
[2] Saheeh: Related by Ahmad (5/63) and it was authenticated by al-Albaanee in as-Saheehah (no. 1352).
 
[3] Hasan: Related by at-Tirmidhee (1/217-218) who said, "The hadeeth is Hasan Saheeh."
 
 
Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Bin Baz
 
al-Fataawaa (1/193-194)

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

The Difference between Men and Women in Islam

Character and Creation:
Man was created from dirt and the woman was created from the rib.
Allah has decreed the menstrual cycle for the woman and not the man.
Men grow beards women don’t, but if she does it’s permissible for her to shave it.
Women are deficient in their intellect and religion. i.e A woman witness = ½ a man and during menses she doesn’t pray and fast.
The men have been given strength over women.
A man’s semen is white and a woman’s is yellow.
It’s an obligation to circumcise the man and its sunnah to circumcise the woman.
Ear piercing is permissible for women and not for men.

Purification:
The urine of the woman is stronger and more dirtier than the man’s
It’s legislated for man to redo Wudu if he intends to have relations with his a second time in the same setting.

Prayer:
The Athaan and Iqamah aren’t a must for the women and it’s incorrect for a woman to call them for men.
A woman prays behind a man, even if she’s alone. However if a man prays behind another man alone, his prayer is incorrect.
A woman can’t lead a man in prayer.
If a woman leads the prayer for other women she must stand in the
middle. When a man leads the prayer he stands in front row all alone.
Congregational prayer is must for the men and not the women.
The best row for women in congregation is the last and the best row for the men is the first.
Walking to prayer at night is recommended for men, but not for woman.
If the imam makes a mistake in prayer the women clap and the men
say “ Subhanallah”
The women don’t have to attend Jumu’ah; and men must attend Jumu’ah.
Women can’t deliver the sermon for Eid, Jumu’ah, Eclipse prayer and Rain prayer.
Prayer is invalid when a woman passes in front of a man. And if a man passes in front of another man during prayer, it’s still valid.
The Eid prayer is an obligation for men, but not for women. However it’s recommended for women to attend if they are safe from fitah.

Funeral Prayer:
The congregation stands at the head of the deceased man and at the middle of the deceased woman.
It’s disliked for women to visit the graveyard and it’s recommended for men.
Women can’t accompany a funeral procession, but men can.
Women wash and shroud each other and men wash and shroud each other; unless they were spouses.

Zakah and Sadaqah:
Women are encouraged more than men to give charity.
A woman can pay Zakah on her children’s and husband’s behalf, but a man can’t pay Zakah on his children’s and wife’s behalf.
Redemption is a duty for the man and not the woman. This can occur if a man intentionally had relations with his wife during daylight in Ramadan.
A woman can’t fast voluntarily unless she has her husband’s permission. A man doesn’t need his wife’s permission to fast voluntarily.

Hajj
A woman must have a Mahram when travelling.
A woman mustn’t raise her voice during the Talbeeyah; and  a man should raise voice.
A woman’s Ihram is the clothes she wears for the journey.
A man can do Ramal-a slight jog between Safa and Marwa, and around the Ka’bah; and a woman shouldn’t.
It’s not recommended for the women to try and kiss or touch the black stone during crowding.
A man can ascend on Safa and Marwa, however a woman mustn’t.

Aqeeqah:
For a girl one sheep is sacrificed and for a boy two.

Jihad, Battle and Leadership:
There were no women Prophets or Messengers.
A woman can’t be a leader for the people or the military.
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took the pledge from the men through a handshake and from the women by speech.
Women aren’t obliged to perform Jihad unlike the men. However there are certain conditions that must adhered to before the men embark on this  obligation.

Marriage , Divorce, Iddah, Kulla’:
Women are given the Sadaq, not the men.
Men have the authority for divorce, marriage and giving the Mahr, not the women.
A man can marry a woman from Ahul Kitab if he knows she frees from Zina.  A woman doesn’t have this right.
A man can have more than one wife. A woman can’t have more than one husband.
The Waleemah and wedding are the responsibility on the man not the woman.
It’s permissible for the women to beat the Duff at their wedding. This act isn’t permissible for the men.
Maintenance and support are the duty of the men not the women.
A woman is under the authority of her husband. A man isn’t under the authority of his wife.
A woman can’t have anyone visit her home unless she gets her
husband’s permission first. A Man doesn’t need permission for visitors in his home.
The Angels curse the woman if her husband separates from her bed. The husband doesn’t receive this curse.
A woman must have her husband’s permission before she leaves home. A man doesn’t need his wife’s permission to leave home.
A man doesn’t have an ‘Idda unless he wants to marry his ex-wife’s sister or aunt. However if he divorces his fourth wife and wants to remarry, then he must wait until his ex-wife concludes her ‘Iddah.

Dress and Adornment:
It’s recommended for a woman to adorn herself in her home for her husband.
It’s haraam for a woman to imitate a man in his dress.
It’s an obligation for the women to sag their clothes below her ankles. Sagging pants and thoubs below the ankles is Haraam for men.
A woman can’t change her clothes unless she’s in her own home. This act doesn’t apply to the men.
A woman must wear Hijab: cover her face and body.
Women can wear jewelry.
Men can’t wear silk, but women can.

Taken from : Kashful Watha’I by Shayk Yahya Al-Hajooree